Roles we play and shouldn’t

Life is so interesting sometime , we live the way we think we should sometimes and we forget to personalize our lives.

I use my self as an example .

My first marriage I had 4 fantastic children a Husband that loved me to no end a home . very early in the marriage 5 years in My husband had an accident at work and was not able to work again  .

We swap roles , but did we?

He was home with the children and I started travelling doing what I love to do that was good, My Husband was home taking care of the children, But.

When I cam home I had to catch up on all the house work Prepare meals for when I was away not all but enough for a few day, Why did I do that ?

I did that because apparently it was a woman job to keep house  etc etc etc, you see if the house was not tidy people would say , Gee she does not keep her house well  , etc, etc .

But they forgot that I was out trying to earn a living for a better future for my family . My Husband he had it good , he could drink  catch up with his mates  not care, and I let him . till one day he said we don’t have enough money , and I said well maybe if you cut down on your drinking  and smoking we might ? I remember a few times that I needed a pair of Bra or a dress or even shoes, I would not get it because the children needed something, we were that broke that sometimes  worry  about how we were gong to make it , but if my Husband wanted to go out drinking  he did and then he would complain about how little money we had , so I said to him , o from no on you handle all the  Finances even the Shopping . that was good  than I started thinking why am i killing my self working and keeping up with everything  , so I said to my self well if the Kitchen is not clean when I come home we will have take aways   , that made it easier ,  but then I said that is ok but not solving the problem , so I explain to my Husband , is not a WOMAN’S job to do everything in a Marriage  we are a team I don’t want my Boys to grow up thinking that their partners are their maid .so he brought me a Dishwasher , lol it helped but he didn’t get it . but when the kids grew up and started leaving home he realized then .

Our Jobs as Parents is to teach our children to cook , clean , Budget and respect and value what we have  so they can cope with the world out side .

So I hope that My children don’t have role play in their homes , I hope that they work together with their partners  and keep house together ,take care of the children together support one another 200%, and when it comes to money I hope they take responsibility and know , that sometimes we need to think before we spend , we don’t have to spend hundreds on Drinks  , we don’t need to keep up with the Jones’s as they say . All we need to do is to live honestly with each other  and not expect more than we expect from our selves with our partner,


Marriage  mostly fail due to Unfaithfulness and taking a Partner for Granted

Please think about the Love you have and help it grow  , don’t drown it


X’mas Message

Every day this week I have sat down to write, on how the world  delivers Xmas. and I am sorry to say , that it has become a Materialistic holiday , where people are creating problem for them selves trying to get the best present ever. But they are missing the point .

the best X’mas present is you.

Share a meal, sing a song dance a little just be together.

X’mas is the celebration of a Baby  that was born and it was wonderfully gifted and able to show us the way of truth love and light .

wishing you all the happiest of X’mas may you have the gathering of Family and friends

Overcoming a set back


To Trust is a big thing . once trust is lost it is very difficult to regain.

Just lately I really trusted someone to organize a tour to be able to share the love and knowledge with all that are ready to meet them selves and awaken their potentials .

She informed me that she did a number of things only to find out that they were all lies

She never has the decency to front up  than  she still wanted to do another destination and I declined as I lost TRUST.

I can be your best friend as long as we are honest with each other , but once you broken that trust is over, so she rang me and wanted to meet to prove that she could not help the situation , so I  agreed to meet , but no show again .

but is a Lesson for me , even when we trust we need to double check.

Besides that I have had a wonderful few days at a Friends place , it has given me a chance to get to know him.

What ever happens in your life don’t let it change you believe or hold you back .

Take a step back and re-asses you plan and give it a fresh start .

I will send this person love and strength and I hope she can find her truth and peace.

Love and Light everyone

Walking together


we live in a world that we need to learn to walk together 13909314_1362307330465318_3266077171755776188_o.jpg

We need to learn to listen to each other as we all need one another in some way . 11703039_10153402798113908_6305097368921292391_n

So lets walk together so we can support one another and grow in Harmony

we never walk alone as Spirit is  with us to protect us , all we need to do is listen